For parents navigating divorce, balancing the demands of custody agreements and daily life can feel overwhelming. Adjusting to a new normal while prioritizing the emotional well-being of children often requires rethinking routines and focusing on the present, even when faced with difficult days. This process is challenging but essential for fostering stability and healing within the family.
In the video, Atty. Tina Campbell and Atty. Heather Ogier of Turner-Monahan PLLC, discuss practical strategies for balancing professional responsibilities with custody agreements, focusing on how mothers can adapt to a new normal, prioritize their children’s well-being, and navigate co-parenting dynamics to create a stable and supportive environment for their families. All case evaluations are based on Texas Family Law. This content is for educational purposes only.
Supporting Clients in Balancing Custody and Professional Life
At Turner Monahan, we understand the challenges of balancing professional life with a custody agreement. Guiding clients to adjust to their new normal is at the core of what we do. Many people have expectations of creating an Instagram-perfect lifestyle, but the reality after divorce often looks very different. We guide our clients in embracing this new phase and finding ways to make it work for them—and, most importantly, for their children.
Focusing on the New Normal for Families
We emphasize the importance of creating a “new normal” that prioritizes the well-being of children. Adjusting to this reality can be difficult, but the focus should remain on ensuring kids are supported through this process. Parents may need to put their own desires on hold temporarily to help their children adapt.
Children often perceive things in very black-and-white terms, making it crucial for parents to be attuned to subtle changes in behavior. A seemingly minor comment or body language can deeply impact a child. We encourage our clients to be mindful of these cues and to foster an environment that feels stable and safe for their children.
Managing Communication and Co-Parenting Dynamics
Words, tone, and body language play a significant role in co-parenting. Children are highly perceptive—they absorb not just the words spoken but the emotions behind them. Even if a parent’s words are positive, a tone of negativity can leave a lasting impact. This often causes children to distance themselves emotionally from that parents.
We guide our clients to avoid disparaging the other parent in any way. Asking children to take sides is deeply harmful, and the resulting tension can last for years. For this reason, we believe that focusing on cooperative and respectful co-parenting is key to supporting children through this process.
The Importance of Parenting Classes and Co-Parenting Support
Parenting classes can be a valuable resource during and after a divorce. Many counties in the Metroplex area require these classes, and we see them as an opportunity to gain an outside perspective on how parental actions affect children. These classes often provide parents with tools to better handle co-parenting dynamics, minimizing harm to their children.
Blending families after a divorce introduces its own challenges, especially if the relationship with the other parent has been contentious. Parenting classes can also help new partners understand the importance of effective co-parenting. Being on the same page and adopting a shared perspective ensures a smoother transition for children and helps avoid unnecessary tension.
Technology and Co-Parenting: Tools for Effective Communication
In today’s digital age, technology can make co-parenting more manageable. Tools like shared calendars, co-parenting apps, and secure messaging platforms help streamline communication between parents. These tools minimize misunderstandings and provide a clear record of agreements and schedules.
What Does the Texas Family Code Say?
Texas Family Code contains specific provisions that guide parents through custody and co-parenting arrangements, ensuring that decisions prioritize the best interests of the children. Below are key sections that provide insight:
Section 153.002: Best Interest of the Child
This statute emphasizes that the primary consideration in custody arrangements is always the best interest of the child. Courts assess various factors, including the child’s emotional and physical needs, the stability of each parent’s home, and the ability of parents to co-parent effectively. For families going through divorce, understanding this principle can help guide decisions.
Section 153.004: Parental Conduct Impact
The court evaluates each parent’s behavior, including any history of family violence or substance abuse. Negative conduct during or after the divorce can influence custody decisions, making it essential for parents to demonstrate responsible and respectful behavior.
Section 153.006: Access and Visitation Rights
This section provides guidelines for noncustodial parents’ visitation rights. The standard possession order ensures that both parents maintain meaningful relationships with their child, barring any safety concerns. Parents are encouraged to comply with these orders to avoid legal disputes and ensure stability for the child.
Section 153.133: Parenting Plan Requirements
Texas courts often require parents to submit a parenting plan outlining how they will share responsibilities. The plan may include custody schedules, decision-making authority, and dispute resolution methods. Co-parents should collaborate on a plan that minimizes conflict and supports the child’s development.
Section 153.134: Conservatorship Rights and Duties
This section outlines the rights and responsibilities of conservators (parents with custody). It ensures both parents have access to key information about the child’s education, medical care, and daily life. Encouraging open communication and mutual respect between co-parents aligns with the legal expectations set forth in this statute.
Section 153.251: Standard Possession Order
The Standard Possession Order (SPO) lays out the typical schedule for visitation in Texas. While the SPO provides a guideline, courts can modify it to suit the unique needs of a family. Parents should work collaboratively to determine a schedule that minimizes disruption to the child’s routine.
Consulting with an attorney can provide clarity on these statutes, ensuring you fully understand your rights and responsibilities under the Texas Family Code.
Encouragement for the Future
While every day may bring new challenges, it’s essential to remember that things will get better. There will be good days, bad days, and even some difficult ones, but progress is always possible. Focusing on the present, prioritizing the needs of the children, and maintaining a spirit of cooperation can help families navigate these changes and find stability over time.
Hire An Experienced Fort Worth, Texas, Divorce Attorney
Navigating the complexities of divorce and co-parenting requires patience, flexibility, and a focus on the well-being of children. While every family’s journey is unique, consulting with a knowledgeable family law attorney can provide the guidance needed to make informed decisions and create a stable environment for everyone involved. Schedule a free, no-obligation consultation with attorney Tyler Monahan to discuss the details.
Check our website for more information about our services. Plus, don’t forget to go through our blog to find out more regarding your case. There is tons of information on divorce and answers to unique questions like “Choosing between mediation, trial, and arbitration. Which is the best alternative?”
FAQs Regarding Divorce
Divorce cases are unique, so you will have many questions. To save you time and hassle, here are some topics that revolve around the area. For more information, contact our firm, Turner-Monahan, PLLC.
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Disclaimer
The commentary and opinions are for informational and educational purposes only and not to provide legal advice. You should contact an attorney in your state for legal advice concerning any particular issue or problem. You can become a client and enter the attorney-client privilege only after hiring Turner-Monahan, PPLC, by signing a written retainer agreement.
